Thursday, August 21, 2025

Wedding Ballad

 


   It was 981 days from our non-rooftop, wouldn’t-have-it-any-other-way engagement to our most memorable, magical wedding. Along the way, we met with many vendors—some who were instantly cast aside and some who completely wowed us. The chapel chosen for our ceremony was Pretty Place Chapel, with a view that God painted with His own hands. 

     The morning was a blur of makeup sessions, exchanging gifts for the bridesmaids and groomsmen, getting dressed in our best tuxes and dresses, and a few pictures here and there. Then came the part I had been anticipating all morning: the first look, where I would see my bride-to-be in her dress for the first time. When the doors opened and our eyes locked, I suddenly felt like a kid discovering ice cream for the first time. 

     The route to the venue took us through downtown Brevard, NC—a place we had spent many weekends shopping, trying new foods, spending time with our kids, and having mini adventures that would help shape who we are as a couple. 

     When we arrived at the venue, Matty, Elle, Izzie, and a few friends went to the bridal suite to await the ceremony. I found myself meandering about and making small talk with friends and family. I eventually made my way over to the Reverend, and she and I discussed the proper pronunciation of my last name: “Qualls—kinda like walls, but with a Qu.” 

 “Now she’s got me twisted, like an old beach roller coaster.” – Roller Coaster by Luke Bryan 

     The first strands of a masterfully crafted instrumental began, and I was instantly back to our first concert where we had our first dance to this very song—the kind of close-quarters, crowded-aisle concert dance where she and I became the only two people in the arena. Elle, Izzie, and I made our way down the stairs, took our places, and awaited what was next. 

     “I believe in a thing called love, just listen to the rhythm of my heart.” – I Believe in a Thing Called Love by The Darkness 

     I knew what song our flower guy, Stephen, had chosen, but I had no idea about the spectacle we were about to witness! Light-up shoes, a fanny pack, and a gold jacket that sparkled as the light hit it were just the start. Then, out of the fanny pack? Rose petals! A creatively choreographed entrance that left the aisle covered in flowers and awesomeness. After a brief pause, the Reverend asked everyone to stand. 

 “In ogni passo che muoverai qui, รจ un viaggio infinito.” – Fall on Me by Andrea Bocelli 

     The piano’s soft notes filled the chapel, and I steadied myself as she appeared at the top of the steps. Her elegance, grace, beauty, intelligence, and all the other million things I love about her were wrapped in a dress as black and shimmering as the midnight sky. Colten and Slade led her to the altar. They gave her away, then took their places beside me as she took her place across from me. We said our vows, and I kissed the bride! 

     I was recounting all of the day’s events that led up to that moment. We had dodged rain on our way to Pretty Place, none of the guests got lost, Matty, the wedding party, and I had all made it down the steps from the top of the chapel to the altar without incident, and I had not dropped her when I dipped her for the first kiss. Minor disasters averted all around! 

     “Now pronouncing for the first time as a married couple, Mr. and Mrs. Quails.” 

 “You holdin’ me, holdin’ you, it’s a hell of a view.” – Hell of a View by Eric Church

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